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https://bit.ly/3ISIdo9 https://bit.ly/3ulUwp4 https://bit.ly/35zNmDj https://bit.ly/347qj2o https://bit.ly/3KX52sZ https://bit.ly/3sbuhii https://bit.ly/3oicS6x https://bit.ly/3GhjacH https://bit.ly/3uhR4vD the man wants the woman to be submissive and she`s not really into it. I don`t think their relationship has any future, not in business and not in private life. As far as books go that tell women how to treat their men. It might not be for everyone, but I know a few women that should take at least some the advice written in those books. I know a few women, no matter what their husbands do, they just can`t do anything right, weather it`s the way they drive, the way they dress or if they try to make their own children behave in the right kind of manner. And some of them children are really brats because the women don`t let their husbands dicipline them. I don`t mean hitting them, but teaching them right from wrong. My cousin is a woman like that. Whatever her husband does she bitches at him and then complains that he has withdrawn from her. He is a real nice man and tries his best, but she doesn`t appreciate anything he does. As a matter of fact nothing is good enough. Autumn by Autumn on 2005 Mar 28 - 18:52 | reply to this comment WOW I am the guy some comments back...I wanted to thank ALL of you for your comments. I can't believe how deeply and honestly you have all wrote to me on my problem here. I'm big on the self help books but realize that some are not...I like the idea of the mind gearing thing with the feelings and the logical thoughts being tied together...I'm a bit out of the water there but I think you have made yourself clear enough for me to understand. I think you are all wise and your opinions come from life as well as things and the heart...I'm almost choked up...I do mean that... To all U Guys -n- Girls THANK YOU AGAIN!!! by WOW on 2005 Mar 28 - 19:01 | reply to this comment Does anyone else hear bells? I'm certainly getting the feeling that your good sense is talking to you through a bull horn here. If the alarms are ringing, then you'd best heed the call. Speak clearly and plainly to your significant other about your idea of defined roles in a relationship, and if she can't abide by that, then the painful process of weaning yourself from her intimately may be in order. It's amazing how the shine tarnishes in a relationship when one's most basic needs are overruled. Communication may well save the day. One way or the other. Please consider me one who learned the hard way. A couple further thoughts here. When it really is right, there are no niggling questions or reservations, and certanily no fear. Imagine living a life where your passion, in every sense of the word, withers and dies. Imagine living a life where two people bring out the best in one another and each becomes the highest and best possible for them. Clear communication will pave the way. I wish you the very best. by ameribritwife on 2005 Mar 29 - 22:31 | reply to this comment being a man I agree, I am new to this site, and notice that this post is quite old, so unsure how current this topic is. One of the hesitations I have is the, shall we say 'quaint', way men refer to their wives. My (soon to be) wife is intelligent, educated, successful and completely capable of living independently. However, the fact that she chooses to pursue this with me is a very, very
