I’m also scared, I totlaly see myself here. I worry about things my FI says and does wondering if they are real issues that will cause problems in the future or if I am just overananlyzing becasue I’m scared.
The real issue is that I don’t trust myself. I don’t think I know how to recognize whether what I’m seeing with my FI is a recipe for disaster or just someone who is not perfect being a little thoughtless at times.
I knew there things about my ex that I was not happy about before we got married but I went ahead anyway. I failed to give these nagging doubts the consideration they deserved and they turned out to be deal breaking issues.
HELP!!!
I’m so scared of repeating my past mistake.